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On a Saturday afternoon, after some empowering self-discovery, I am unstoppable. I can feel it in every inch of my being and I feel as though, when I walk outside, I stand a little taller and my smile shines a little brighter. Nothing is holding me back. I am over you. On a Saturday evening, when I’m sharing drinks and a laugh with another, I am reborn. As he leans in for a kiss, I know that his lips, and mine, are all that matter in this moment. You are nothing to me because I am over you. On a Saturday night, when I’m lying in his arms, I note that he chose the same side of the bed as you. My mind takes inventory of all the ways he is not you: his smell is not yours, his hand does not curl around mine the way yours does, and his breath does not send shivers down my spine like your deep exhales do. But I’m with him, so I must be over you. On Sunday morning, as I shove my sheets into the wash, hoping to rid them of his scent, I think of how yours brought me such comfort. I breathe ...

Best thing you can get is love the heat of an argument, it’s far easier to say what we don’t want than what we do. Stan Tatkin, the founder of the psychobiological approach to couple therapy, proposes that people are better built for war than love. Sometimes it seems that way. We say, “Stop being so sad,” instead of, “I wish you would tell me what’s making you sad.” Or, “You’re always neglecting me!” instead of, “I feel really lonely and need your attention.” The problem with expressing needs in a negative way is it comes off like criticism. Despite what some people say, there is no such thing as constructive criticism. Criticism triggers a person to become defensive and protect themselves from an attack, which blocks the resolution of a conflict. It doesn’t matter how much trust and intimacy there is in a relationship , it’s still nearly impossible for someone to listen to a personal attack without becoming defensive. This is true even for very happy couples. As witnesse...

This type of love can also be called mystical love, or just pure love. It is much rarer than the other two types of love. Whereas the love mode of narcissism is directed to oneself, and the love mode of jealousy is directed to another person, love by itself has no object. It is just a flux, just a flow of enchanting emotion to everything. Usually the only time that a person feels such love for any length of time is when the person falls in love with someone. Then the world transforms magically into a wonderland (really the person has fallen in love with the world, rather than with the other person) ; however, soon the magic fades, the mood vanishes and is replaced by the love mode of jealousy – now love is restricted to the other person. When pure love is my current mood, I have the same value as everyone else, so differences in abilities or in character development are unimportant. Uniformity is the rule (this should be separated from conformity, which is characteristic of the se...

Yes this is what you want to hear I LOVE YOU even if is the first time you meet him/her.But you can't get that really. The best relationship you can have is the ones thou will never expect to be a relationship. Want to tell you some thing about love,  you can never love someone the first time you see him/her,  and when someone tells you I love you for the first time you meet them it is a lie because love take time to develop. I see you today I can only like you not love you because of I think I love you I may not like what I will see later about you than I will start keeping my distance from you that it's not 💕 love. I see you today I like you because you look beautiful and you got my attention,  that likeness have to develop to love someday. Yes that what ladies want to hear (I love you) and that why he loves you today if you give him what he wants from you tomorrow your heart is broken. Don't let the ward I love you make you fall for him very easily.

Don't think he love you the first day you meet him. You can only know if he love you when the relationship last long and end in something you are expecting

believe in your self

What ever you do in life never forget your family because the are the only people that will stand/stay with you when all friends is gone. When you think you got no hope look up to God and call on him if your family fail to,  but always love them it's importance in your life.