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Love, feelings and emotion is one of the worst thing in life if you do not handle it well. In life keeping a friend of opposite sex as just a friend is like planning deprising your self joy. Some time,  some day you start having some unusual feelings for her or she might start having feelings for you and that is very dengeruos in your relationship,  you can't tell her because you don't want  to loss her as a friend and also as a lover,  and you can not also live with it because your feelings will be killing you inside and you can't help it. You will be asking your self what do, just take the risk what you are felling might also be what she I felling for you and she is just wiating for the best time for you to tell her. Stop following a girl you love around pretrnding you are just a friend some one may speak out to her at any time and will never forgive your self for not trying.

On a Saturday afternoon, after some empowering self-discovery, I am unstoppable. I can feel it in every inch of my being and I feel as though, when I walk outside, I stand a little taller and my smile shines a little brighter. Nothing is holding me back. I am over you. On a Saturday evening, when I’m sharing drinks and a laugh with another, I am reborn. As he leans in for a kiss, I know that his lips, and mine, are all that matter in this moment. You are nothing to me because I am over you. On a Saturday night, when I’m lying in his arms, I note that he chose the same side of the bed as you. My mind takes inventory of all the ways he is not you: his smell is not yours, his hand does not curl around mine the way yours does, and his breath does not send shivers down my spine like your deep exhales do. But I’m with him, so I must be over you. On Sunday morning, as I shove my sheets into the wash, hoping to rid them of his scent, I think of how yours brought me such comfort. I breathe ...

Best thing you can get is love the heat of an argument, it’s far easier to say what we don’t want than what we do. Stan Tatkin, the founder of the psychobiological approach to couple therapy, proposes that people are better built for war than love. Sometimes it seems that way. We say, “Stop being so sad,” instead of, “I wish you would tell me what’s making you sad.” Or, “You’re always neglecting me!” instead of, “I feel really lonely and need your attention.” The problem with expressing needs in a negative way is it comes off like criticism. Despite what some people say, there is no such thing as constructive criticism. Criticism triggers a person to become defensive and protect themselves from an attack, which blocks the resolution of a conflict. It doesn’t matter how much trust and intimacy there is in a relationship , it’s still nearly impossible for someone to listen to a personal attack without becoming defensive. This is true even for very happy couples. As witnesse...